Monday, November 14, 2011

A Friendship Worth A Thousand Words


Is that a Spongebob band-aid on her nose? Yes, yes it is.
This was our own Christmas celebration, where the four of us exchanged gifts with each other. This was back when I believed there was no end to a friendship like that. We used to be inseperable. I thought that this bond was unbreakable, but I guess I was wrong.
These girls are worth a thousand memories, a thousand smiles, a thousand words. But it ended with that. The four of us will never share that memory, smile, or word that makes it 1,001. We have grown apart, to be individuals, not the four best friends. We are still friends, but not all four of us.
It kills me to know we will never have another memory like this. I wonder to myself, "why is it so hard to live everyday like it's your last?" Why can't most of the human race grasp the fact that life is way too short. Why can't we forgive and forget? This person you're fighting with could die tomorrow, and you can act like you wouldn't care, but you would. As soon as you got the news, you would hate yourself for being mad at them. You would instantly think of all the great times you had with eachother. This is why I still love each of those three girls, because I realize how bad it would hurt to lose any one of them. I don't care about the mistakes they've made, the times they said they would hang out, but didn't. I don't care anymore, life is too short to waste on being mad at an old best friend. If you're fighting or arguing with one of your friends right now, think about how you'd feel if they died. Would you cry? If you'd cry, then this "fight" you're in, isn't worth it. I don't care if they stole your boyfriend, or didn't text you back last night. A friendship is worth a thousand words, but don't let it end after a thousand words.

2 comments:

  1. dont forget everything happens for a reason! i know it's hard to lose the people you love but try to focus on the good things. sounds like you have an amazing relationship with your boyfriend and since the holidays are coming up maybe you could ask them to all hang out and reconnect? i don't know, good luck!

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  2. I know what its like to disconnect with friends, but it'll get better! Agreed with Maddie, ask them to hangout or something! really good blog though!

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